Recently I listened to a podcast about joy versus happiness. There's a difference, and it matters.
Happiness comes from the Norse word hap - happenstance. It's the accumulated sense that things are going your way. It requires luck to add up. Most days, it doesn't.
Joy is different. Joy doesn't wait for the conditions to be right. It surprises you in the middle of the hard thing. It's the soul's yes, where, despite everything, it feels good to be alive. It goes deeper and lasts longer.
I've been in leadership long enough to experience both.
Happiness looks like a strong quarter, a product launch that went well, a presentation that landed. Real moments. But they don't sustain anything.
Joy looks different. For me, it shows up when a team does something that surprises even themselves. When a problem that seemed stuck suddenly cracks open. When I'm building something that didn't exist before.
For me, I also know what takes it away. Bureaucracy for its own sake. Long stretches with no room to initiate anything new. And when joy disappears, we fill the gap with manufactured happiness, scrolling, comparing, anything to feel something positive. None of it works.
The podcast ended with a story about a cathedral in Portugal. Centuries of artisans embellishing every wall, adding pineapples, more pineapples, endless ornamentation… and nobody ever stopped to build the ceiling. It stood open to the sky not because it was designed that way, but because everyone was too busy adding detail to finish the building.
It's easy to keep adding pineapples.
Worth asking yourself this week: is what you're doing bringing joy, or just the next layer of ornamentation?
Originally published on LinkedIn, 17 May 2026.